I have two children, both are grown with children of their own. Neither of them owns a home. I would like to keep my house in the family for everyone to use. Its not a large home so having two families live here would be rather difficult. But they could share it. I have a trust that splits everything between my two kids. I have included a hand-written note that I had notarized that states my wishes that they keep the house and not sell or mortgage it. Is this a good idea, please advise?